š¹ Sex & Intimacy Specialist | Kink-Aware & BDSM Affirming š¹
I help individuals break free from shame, heal past wounds, and build confidence in their relationships, sexuality, and pleasure. With a Masterās degree in Social Work and a current PhD student in Human Sexuality, I offer a holistic, science-backed, and judgment-free approach to sexual wellness.
⨠About Me āØ
Iāve lived many different chapters of life. I was in a long-term, monogamous, fairly āvanillaā marriage. Now, Iām remarried, and our relationship remains electively monogamousābut with kink, BDSM, and fetish as part of our sex life. Weāre also raising a little one and building a family together.
Since 2018, Iāve been active on Fet and within the kink community. Iāve attended a wide range of BDSM and sex-positive eventsāparties, classes, fashion shows, and weekend conferences in multiple cities. Iāve also worked as a professional Domme, giving me the rare opportunity to help bring fantasies to life. Along the way, Iāve had diverse sexual experiences and continue to hold space for peopleās most personal storiesātheir histories, struggles, and desires.
I studied Womenās and Gender Studies and Diversity Studies in college and identify as a strong feminist who supports social justice and the BIPOC community. I grew up Christian and studied religion academically, which gives me a deep understanding of how faith and shame can shape our relationship with sexuality. Today, Iām a member of the Unitarian Universalist church and teach Our Whole Lives (OWL) comprehensive sex education across the lifespan.
Spiritually, I follow a Celtic pagan path that connects me to nature and my Irish roots. Outside of work, I love creating art, traveling, attending EDM shows, and dancing at Irish music festivals during the summer.
Iām here to keep learning, connecting, and building spaces where people can be honest, curious, and free. That is a little about me! I hope it helps you to feel comfortable enough to share your story.